healing-is-cool:
Growing up poor with parents constantly fighting over not having enough, really messes up your relationship with money.
Even if you are financially stable now, buying something for yourself -even necessities- feels like an impossible task. You feel guilty, undeserving, and even talk yourself out of buying things you’ve wanted for a long time.
You are not a bad person for putting yourself first, for buying stuff that you like and that will make life a little more enjoyable. You deserve good things, you deserve to spoil yourself. You deserve the kindness you are always giving to others.